Believe manifestation is fake BS?

Great. That makes you the perfect person to try this.

Picture this...

You've circled Waikīkī twice in 5PM traffic.

You've even checked the side street near that one hotel that sometimes has free parking.

You’re about two minutes away from muttering “nevermind, I didn’t want to go out anyway.”

But right before you give up, a car pulls out. Prime spot.

Close enough to see the ocean. Far enough to avoid valet drama.

And part of you thinks, Wait… did I just manifest that?

Spoiler: Yes.

But not in the “vision board and moon water” kind of way (no offense to my moon water people).

This is manifestation that works even if you don’t “believe in it.”

My first front-row free parking experience helped me realize - manifestation isn't "magic."

This is neuroscience, nervous system regulation, and pattern disruption—wrapped up in a fun five-minute game.

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Why start with parking?

Because it’s low risk, high feedback.
You’ll know within minutes if you’re in sync or in sabotage.

More importantly:

• You get to practice calming your system while you’re mildly annoyed but not falling apart
• You get real-time proof that your energy affects your outcomes
• You get to laugh at yourself—and that alone is medicine

You don’t need to “become spiritual.” You just need to be open to trying a new experiment.

That’s it! Play with it like a game.

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How to Manifest a Parking Spot (Even in Waikīkī on a Friday Night)

1. Decide before you get there

Right as you’re pulling onto Kalākaua or driving up Kapahulu, say to yourself—out loud if you can:

“There’s a perfect spot waiting for me. It always works out.”

No begging. No bargaining.
Just a simple decision to expect support instead of assuming disappointment.

Even if 90% of you doesn’t believe it—go with the 10% that’s willing to test it.
You’re not committing to a lifestyle. You’re just trying something smarter than spiraling.

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2. Breathe like it matters (because it does)

Let’s be honest - your shoulders are already at your ears and your jaw is tighter than your cousin’s pre-wedding shapewear.

Try this:

• Inhale through your nose for 4
• Hold for 2
• Exhale slowly through your mouth for 6

Say (quietly, in traffic, so you don’t scare anyone):

“I’m safe. I’m not behind. What if this could be different?”

You’re not just calming your mind—you’re resetting your body’s default programming from panic to possibility.

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3. Look with relaxed attention—not desperation

You know when you’re in a rush and you somehow miss the giant open stall two feet away?

That’s your brain in tunnel vision.
When you expect chaos, your brain literally filters for it.
But when you soften, your reticular activating system (yes, that’s a real thing) can finally start showing you better options.

So look around with curiosity. Expect your spot to show up.

“Where’s my spot? I know it’s here.”
You’ll be surprised how often the Universe goes, “Right here, babe.”

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4. Let it be fun. Let it be flexible.

If your “perfect” spot doesn’t open up right away, don’t turn it into a referendum on your worthiness.

Maybe your spot is three cars down. Maybe it’s in the shade. Maybe it’s just not blocked in by a trolley.

“Show me what’s most aligned—even if it’s not what I expected.”

Let it be a game. You’re not failing. You’re experimenting.

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5. Celebrate like you knew it'd work out

You know that quiet smugness when you slide into a front-row stall and someone else is still circling with that “where did she come from?!” energy?

Channel that.

“Of course. That’s how it works for me now.”

Say it. Feel it.
Even if you’re still skeptical, this is how you create a new emotional baseline—where ease doesn’t feel suspicious anymore.

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Because it’s not about parking.

It’s about training your nervous system to:

• Stop bracing for the worst
• Notice ease
• Receive without earning
• Feel safe even when things are uncertain

That’s what gets you into flow.
And once you can do it with parking?
It'll become even easier for it to show up everywhere else—time, clients, opportunities, even rest.

So no, this isn’t just some "woo-woo BS."

It’s just how smart leaders like you learn to stop overfunctioning and start letting life meet you halfway.

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Share Your Shift

Want to try it this week and DM me your win? I love a good “you’ll never believe what just happened” story—especially when it ends with, “and I didn’t even have to parallel park.”